Summer Infidelity - How 3 wives Discovered Their Husband's Summer Affair

Summer is the cheating season. Infidelity and extramarital affairs usually flourish this time of the year. According to statistics, 50% to 70% of husbands cheat on their wives. A good percentage of these affairs take place during the summer months.

Most Summer Affairs Go Undetected

Studies reveal that 2/3 of the wives whose husbands are cheating have no idea their husbands are having an affair. Most summer infidelity goes undetected because its easier for cheating husbands to hide their extramarital affairs. But getting away with a summer fling only encourages a cheating husband to do it again next year. Some wives catch on quickly to what their husbands are up to and quickly nip these summer affairs in the bud. Other women find out about these summer flings quite by accident. Lets take a look at how 3 unsuspecting wives accidentally discovered they were the victims of summer infidelity.

He Sent Her Away So He Could Play

Sharon and Fred always rent a beach house during the summer months. Since Fred works in the city, he drives out to spend weekends with his family, and returns home Sunday night for work the next week. One Wednesday, the kids and their friends next door planned a big beach party. Sharon took the train back to the city to pick up some party favors from their apartment that she thought the kids could use. When Sharon entered the apartment, she found 2 wine glasses on the kitchen counter, the remains of a dinner for two, and candles on the dining table that had burnt down halfway. In their bedroom, on the unmade bed were satin sheets shed never seen before, and an empty champagne bottle on the nightstand next to the bed.

Its not uncommon for husbands to play while their wives are away. Some husbands routinely send the wife and kids to the beach, the lake, the country, or to visit relatives in another state, with this in mind. Most wives have no idea what their husbands are up to while theyre away. Instead of sitting home watching the ballgame on TV, eating pizza and drinking beer, hes wining and dining his ladylove.

The Fictitious Fishing Trip and Other Lies

Marcy never gave it a second thought when Hank left early one morning for a 3-day fishing trip supposedly with the guys. Later that afternoon, their neighbor asked to borrow Hanks pruning shears, so Marcy went to get them from the storage shed. Imagine her surprise when she noticed Hanks fishing gear still in its usual place. In his haste to get away for the weekend trip with his mistress, Hank forgot to take along his fishing gear to back up his alibi.

Cheating husbands often disguise vacations with their mistress as fishing, camping or rafting trips with the guys. They know their wives are unlikely to question guys only outdoor activities or extreme sports, and rarely ask to tag along. While youre under the assumption that hes hiking the Appalachian Trail with his buddies, hes actually holed up with his honey in a cabin by the lake.

The Bogus Business Trip

Normally Claire accompanied Larry on his business trips. But this time she wasnt invited to come along. Larry said he had an unusually heavy schedule with seminars all day and client meetings at night. Feeling uneasy about Larrys business trip, Claire called his office pretending to be a client needing to get in touch with him. No one mentioned anything about the business conference Larry told Claire he had to attend. She was told that Larry was on much-needed vacation and would be unreachable by phone until he returned the following week. Claire was referred to the colleague who was handling Larrys accounts.

Trysts with the mistress are often disguised as bogus business trips. But even valid business trips can give a cheating husband a chance to cheat far from the sight of prying eyes. If hes attending a summer conference with female co-workers, a budding office romance could blossom into a full blown affair. Are his trips occurring more frequently or lasting longer than usual? A cheating husband can always add a few extra days to a legitimate business trip so he can spend that time with his lover.

What to Do About Summer Affairs

If you think your husband could be planning to have a summer affair, dont make it easy for him to cheat. Learn to spot the signs of summer infidelity. Safeguard your marriage by putting some checks and balances in place. For details on how to do this, request the free Summer Infidelity Report which lists the signs of summer infidelity, and offers suggestions on how to short-circuit a summer fling or how to prevent your husband from having a summer affair. For your free copy, e-mail SummerInfidelity@gmail.com with "Summer Infidelity Report in the subject line. Educate yourself about summer infidelity, stay on top of the situation, and you wont have to be the last one to know.

About Ruth Houston:

Infidelity expert Ruth Houston is the founder of InfidelityAdvice.com and the author of Is He Cheating on You 829 Telltale Signs. She is frequently called on by the media to comment on popular infidelity issues in the news . Ruth has been quoted in USA Today, The New York Times, and numerous others, and has been a guest on The Today Show, Fox News, CNN and over 320 other radio and TV talk shows worldwide. For more infidelity information visit Ruths website at http://www.InfidelityAdvice.com or her infidelity blog at http://infidelitynewsandviews.blogspot.com To interview infidelity expert Ruth Houston, call 718 592-6039 or e-mail InfidelityExpert@gmail.com

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